I am sooo, so sorry for your friend. Unfortunately, I understand most of that all too well. For me, it's because I didn't want to get "squished". I let 5 years slide by.

I just finished my 3 round of chemo, have 5 more, then mastectomy, then radiation , then a daily pill for the next 10 years.

Again, my heart goes out to you.

Please ladies, go get squished.