I sure know you are frightened. I just wanted to offer support and let you know that it will be OK. Also, it won't take months to reduce the swelling. Really, you will healfaster than you think. Just do all the things your oral surgeon asks you to do. Keep cool compresses on 20 min, off etc for a few days. The second and third day is usually when the most swelling apprears, and then you will start to improve. Lots of people have to go through this, and with medication, your discomfort won't be so bad. Your oral surgeon can give you the meds. you need, before and after. Also you can be put to sleep and get them out all at once. It depends on your condition, and what the oral surgeon is willing to do. As far as meals go Jo Mar is very correct. I also ate oatmeal, cream of wheat, yogurt, even cottege cheese. Let me know how you do. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. ginnie