Falcon,
Welcome to NeuroTalk. It sounds like you need to understand your symptoms before presenting them to medical help. There is a good resource called the TBI Survival Guide at
www.tbiguide.com It is 84 pages that you can print out. You and your wife can both read it and highlight your symptoms.
Understanding your symptoms can help you learn work-arounds and other coping skills so they don't get in the way of your work. So, do you work with 16's? What do you do specifically?
You want to learn work-arounds before someone else starts to notice your struggles. What other symptoms do you have?
My best to you.