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Old 09-17-2012, 11:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Jimking View Post
She broke her right wrist back in 2002 from a trip and fall. We were out of state at the time visiting family when it happened. She had her wrist temporarily set until we came home for her doctor to look at and treat. It turned out the set was not correct so she had the rebroke and reset.
To make a long story short my wife did not tell me about her RSD for two years although I knew something wasn't right. She's a private person so I didn't ask questions until she told me. Her fear was that I'd leave her because of it. I will say at the beginning I buried my head in the sand, not at all happy in what I was reading about RSD. Then she could no longer deal with uncaring doctors and work. She worked an additional 4 years before she called it quits. From there she really needed my help.

One month is not alot of time to learn to deal with this condition. However, It is in the early stage of this disease when you really want to aggressively treat this! My wife did not have that opportunity because she was misdiagnosed for two years. I strongly urge the both of you to manage stress very carefully because I have a strong belief that stress can cause as much pan the long run than the broken bone itself. Your husband will have to learn not to transfer his stress onto you, and that is not easy because it took sometime for me to realize that I was putting stress onto my wife and not knowing it. Anyway I can ramble on and on but am currently at work. Don't hesitate to PM me.
ugh
wow! this sounds all too familiar omg, we lived in mn decided we couldnt take the long winters, got rid of our beautiful house, bought a 5th wheel and headed south, i regret only that i had a great dr. and tripping in my flipflops. so right now were stuck in missoui, i call it misery state. does yor wife still suffer with this and if i may ask what she does to deal with it? what state are you in? i cant believe they didnt diagnose it right away! im thinking of contacing a rsd attorney. goodnight for now. ty.
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