I think others (who don't have MS) sometimes think that by encouraging us to do things they're helping us. Misguided but sincere.....most of the time.

My son will sometimes tell me that maybe if I just got out of the house and did something I'd feel better. Little does he know that just the thought of getting ready and going somewhere is sometimes just as bad as actually doing it!

Hope you feel better soon and can do some of the things you enjoy.