I hope you get it done and overwith soon too. It is NO fun being in pain. You have suffered way to long. Do you have a date set? or do they call you in your country? If I were your neighbor, I would be over to help. Just rest alot after. Get home from the hospital as soon as you can. I did wind up staying an extra day. Rested much better at home. I wore a soft collar, but didn't have to do that at night. I only did that the first two days when I was scared to move. I am glad I did the surgery Checkers, and it will turn out OK for you too. ginnie