I see you're in Australia. I'm from New Jersey, USA. I find the Mafia, rotaries, etc., are Jersey things, not really understood by friends in far away states. I have a friend from Wisconsin, some of stuff she talks about is completely foreign to me. Also she was in the Army, another life I know nothing about. Now I'm in Maryland, not far from Baltimore. Some there say Drawlings but I say drawings. (which is correct in the USA)

Did I mention I'm an ex School teacher? Might explain my tone.