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Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: i thought it was in my left pocket
Posts: 4,117
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Grand Magnate
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: i thought it was in my left pocket
Posts: 4,117
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.....and to Mark, I say AMEN!!!
(((((( T K ))))) Oh how I wish I could send the perfect pill to fix everything you are up against!
Regarding the insurance, please try not to get too up in arms about this, especially on top of the anxiety you are having over the other issues. The insurance will eventually work itself out, so put that on the back burner, k?
Try to put each stressful thing in it's own compartment rather than being overcome with the whole of things.
So, great! They are going to move down a vertebrae. This will be way better for you in the end-all. No more irritating stim in your abdomen and better coverage where it needs to be.
Your demanding job will just have to make do, especially with Dr's orders. It's their responsibility to delegate the workload, not yours.
Try to put your fear of the surgical procedure in a different context, rather than freaking out over all the 'what-ifs'. The medical staff know what to do, they are professionals and trained in this. The anesthesiologist will be sure to watch you very closely, knowing of your prior experience.
..... SHAME on your rep for instilling fear into you!  Consider him SLAPPED up side the head with my left shoe!
You are in desperate need of better support at home...
Is there some outside help you could bring in to help with those 'to do' lists, a friend or extended family member?
Hubby needs lovingly reminded that you need his love and support, rather than the yelling. This is a time when family needs to pull together as a team. I say this simply because I know how bad things can get on a homefront. MY family sometimes needs to take a step back, look at the situation and refocus on helping each other and doing our part to get things running more smoothly.
So, this is my prayer for you, TK 
Everybody gets uptight and nervous of the upcoming procedure. May the Good Lord bring PEACE upon you and your household.
You will be well on your way to recovery very soon.
Caring Deeply,
Rae
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