I usually buy clothes on Amazon or other 'known" online stores, or stores that are local also, so I can return things without having to pay return shipping fees.
We do get many rare car parts for our projects on ebay and that works well for us. But if something isn't right, then we do have to pay shipping to return it for the refund.
Is there some special store/items she likes that is only on ebay??
But generally , I don't like being told where or what to buy when it comes to Christmas & gifts...