G'day! I love the way you wrote "lids".
That's rhyming slang here in Australia for kids... the tin lids LOL

Not that I'd use rhyming slang too often.
Heck, you probably already know what I'll think about the soy business, but I'll take a peek.
EDITED to ADD:
It's a long thread, I will read it all later.
Just a note though, my children wouldn't have eaten soy at all when they were little as far as I remember. I don't know very much at all about soy milk formula either. Not something I used at all. There was a lot in the news recently about soy and cancer. One minute we were being warned about our consumption, the next minute they backpeddled and said it was ok in moderation. All very confusing this stuff.