It sounds like you have a good doctor taking care of the anxiety issues.
I would get a second opinion on the regular seizures. Its very possible
that he just needs either a increase in the depakote, or a second or
different drug.
Also I would ask the psychiatrist if he would check the levels of the
depakote for you. Since the neuro isn't willing to work with you. Lots
of times a psychiatrist will do this for a patient.
There is something else they should probably check for. I at this
point cant remember its name. It goes along with the depakote.
I'm sorry I've just drawn a blank.
My son has had seizures for many years, he is controlled at present.
So I know how you are feeling. And he has had pseudoseizures too.
Donna