Thanks, but there is really no need for either.
It is very easy (and even not extremely expensive) to find soaps which are made from natural substances.

I have to thank those who were smarter than me and created a significant market for those products.

My husband and sons were very glad to switch to those for me.

I am also (fortunately) not sensitive to everything. I can't prevent my patients from wearing the perfume or cosmetics they like. And I am not going to stop working because of that.

I am also not going to stop hugging my niece, even it sometimes makes me feel unwell.

I also don't think I can blame my entire illness on that.

It's just that when you cherish every better/productive moment that you have, you don't want anything to take it away. And it makes you a bit angry to think that you may have had a few more of those better days if it weren't for some fabric softener or cosmetic.