Maine,
Welcome to the forum. People here will empathize and understand that your pain and other symptoms are real.

I suppose I should not judge your Dr., but a continuing problem after a car accident should not be ignored. You know yourself, and though the accident was clearly traumatizing, car accidents don't take an active person and turn them into lazy, overly dramatic humans. You should have a neurologist check you out whether your own Dr. will refer you or not. Increasing cranial pressure and memory loss are something to fool around with.

You have also lost a lot of weight which is also not normal unless you were on a diet. Don't let anyone blow you off. Sadly, there are still some Dr.s who write things off as a woman being hysterical. Check around and see if you can find a good nuerologist. See who works with problems stemming from auto accidents.

Sam