I wanted to say hello and welcome you to Neuro Talk. There is a good forum for bi-polar. I hope a lot of people come by to give you some support. It does sound like you have your hands full at home. At the top of the page is a serch bar, if you tap that, and put in the conditions you want to address, that will bring you to any of the forums you mentioned. Feel at ease here. You found a very compassionate site. I have been here for two years, and never left because of the support I received.
Again Welcome. I wish you all the best. ginnie