Hello gatorhead and welcome to NeuroTalk.

I am sorry for the trauma that brought you to us and although I don't have any words of wisdom for you, I wonder if you might get more replies if you also copied your post over to the Traumatic Brain Injury Forum (TBI), which is far more active than this one.

Here's the link : http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum92.html

Welcome again. Please let us know if we can help in any way.