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Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: Illinois
Posts: 1,785
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Senior Member
Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: Illinois
Posts: 1,785
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I ran into this several times in the past couple years. I think I waited too long to switch doctors but the one I have now is wonderful. She really takes the time to sit, discuss each of my symptoms/concerns with me, we discuss (yes...really DISCUSS) different ideas for treatment options. Not just what we plan to do now...but what the next step will be if it works or if it doesn't. Even in my worst moments I ALWAYS feel better (reassured) after I see my current doctor. We really are parters when it comes to my treatment and I couldn't be happier.
I'm sorry that you have to deal with this. I know it is not an easy thing to consider and go through the process of finding a new doctor...especially when you are on any sort of work comp. If switching doctors is not a possibility then I have found that going in with a list of things to discuss (questions, treatments, etc) and telling the doctor up front when he comes in that you have a list of things to discuss with them can help...but you need to speak up if they try to run out and say you have more to discuss before they get away. I also found that it helps when you have someone else in the room with you if there's anyone you trust who can go with you. Even some of the worst ones i have had the "pleasure" of working with will try to put on a more compassionate show if there is an audience. I doubt they even do it on purpose...but they just tend to be more concious of how they come across when there are 2 sets of eyes looking back at them instead of just one. And have the person take notes too. On the flip side...another set of ears can help put things in perspective for YOU after the fact. I know sometimes with the pain I would be so emotional that the things I FELT at the time were not necessarily based so much on reality and it can be a good thing to have someone who can center you and bring you down if it's your emotions that are coloring the memory of the visit.
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