I think you are making some good decisions. Something I have learned is that my need to slow down has put me in a unique position. Most high achievers do not spend much time with those who struggle to achieve. Since I have come to understand my struggles, I have been able to recognize and understand the struggles in others. It has provided a completely new understanding of how much of the world has to struggle to get the job done.
Have you been given access to the educational help for her dyslexia? My nephew was not diagnosed until 9th grade. He finally go approved for the help he needed a year or more later. He and his folks were furious when they realized how successful the educational help was. He missed out on most of his education. He was finally approved for help at Lindamood-Bell. They have centers all over the US.
There is enough tendency for PCS based dyslexia without the struggle of a pre-existing dyslexia. Has she ever suffered a concussion previously, maybe an undiagnosed head impact from gymnastics?
Do you have a hormone specialist lined up? Here is a referral system.
https://www.womensinternational.com/..._referral.html
They also have the best price on the compounded creams.
My best to you both.