Thanks for the link I am working with Long Term Care Service and Hasci, but like I said everyone has a waiting list. LTCS did say they may be able to give me some respite relief. Even a couple hours would help. Friends cannot help because he gets angry and cusses everyone out. Nothing you try to do for him suits him he gets mad when he says something and you don't understand and ask him what, a lot of times when you do answer him he calls you a F-ing lie. He just needs more help than I can give. He talks constantly none stop , you can not do or concentrate on anything. If I go to the kitchen he hollows my name over and over. Hopefully They can get him some help before long. Thanks for letting me vent.