beleave me I know how you feel I'm 52 and don't have friends eather,I am soory for your wife it hasto be very hard on her I know that it is exspensive to go to a speshilest but the S.S.department is probably going to turn you down they useualy do the first time, your best bet is to go to a psychietrist he or she will help you with this mine did and I was on in 3 months no court hearing or anything,if you just need someone to talk to I am here I wish you and your wife all the best tell her to try to hang in there it will get better