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Old 11-09-2012, 10:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Ms manic View Post
You hit a soft spot with me, a couple of my kids are drama queens too.

One of mine got mad at me because his younger brother was allowed to do something he hadn't been allowed to do. I said, "I grew up. It's your turn."

Most of my kids stopped blaming me for life when they started having kids of thier own. I tell them that if they're going to be mad at someone, be mad at Mama cause I'll forgive them. Makes them feel foolish and they quite it.

I once thought that women had to do something terrible to be the Mother-in-law of legend but I was wrong. You just have to breathe. Endure.

It's your house. They're lucky kids to have a mom that wants them over for dinner twice a month. They're still alive and you're still alive so it could have been worse.

You may have noticed that I'm not real touchy-feely about this kind of stuff. It sounds like we have a family at war but we really don't. We are all very close, I just don't put up with a lot of garbage from people who come to visit me. And I learned a long time ago not to take sides if there is an issue with the married ones.

Hope your next visit is a better one. Nobody can break your heart like one of your kids.
Oh I never take sides did not even do that when they were little, I think your are right about the thing about when they have kids and I keep praying it will happen to them just so I can laugh,but just about given up on the boys the oldest is 30 and not even close to getting married yet he only dates woman with kids though,hand my younest son is 28 and his girl friend has two kids a 15 year old and a 5 year old they only one of my kids that has kids is my youngest daughter only 7 years old but shes a girl and I don't think the droma ever stops but at least sence she got married she don't bring it to me lol thank you for your inceragement
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