I know how you feel, for a while I put up with my kids doing all sorts for me even when I was having what I would call a really good day. Frustrated me until I eventually blew a fuse. They hadn't realised that they were "deskilling" me and removing my confidence.

After clearing the air, now it is agreed that I am asked beforehand and if I say "no it's ok" then that is respected.

You need to say NO when people overstep the mark. Sounds harsh but I know I felt better when I did. Some days I do say YES just to keep them on their toes and to stay in control LOL

Get it off your chest feel better