My brother's grandson was born with 3 holes in his heart. It wasn't discovered until he had pneumonia. His weight and health is finally good enough to go ahead with surgery tomorrow. His Dad is a drug addict who has gone through an intense one year long in patient drug rehab. It was either that or prison. So he is still in a very precarious state. My brother was a minister that got dissalusioned and left he ministry. he has been chaplain in a hospice which has given him a lot of healing. This hole was discovered a week after my sister in laws Dad died. So there is a lot of anger at God right now. He will be in ICU for a week and then regular cardiac care for a week. So we will be missing them at Thanksgiving. So they are there missing and needing us and we are here missing and needing them