Alice you words are so incredibly well said and you have such a special and unique perspective and overall you bring so much to the table that i think needs to be shared on a bigger scale - as in health care reform. There is a saying in the legal community about
Seeing the forest through the trees that may apply here

Not to point fingers and punish anyone but rather to highilght the faults and contribute to changes that improve many, many people's lives (amazing how literal that is and amazing how so few know that, ,myself included until recently)