I will answer a bit here, and welcome you to Neuro talk. I agree those infected teeth need to come out. However if you are not getting the feedback, and information from your dentist, don't have that person do the extractions. You need an oral surgeon, as there are other issues involved such as infection, that sounds extensive. You need to be 100% sure of all that your physician wants to do ahead of time, not have problems after, that were not addressed before the proceedure. I hope Bryanna will come by for more adequate explainations. She is by far the best for knowledge as she has been in the profession for many years. Call an oral surgeon, and tell him of your problems, I don't think they will make you wait long under the circumstances you have. Keep us informed, and Neruo Talk will be here for you. I sure know about being afraid at times too. ginnie