Thanks for the tips. I definately need to get my kids as self sufficient as possible. I am thankful I have lots of family and friends that I am sure will help out. Frozen meals is a great idea.

The good thing is that they are kinds used to having to b a little careful around my shoulder and I had a minor hand surgery one year ago. So hopefully they wont b too scared.

Thanks for all the help and keep the ideas and surgery info coming