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Old 11-30-2012, 01:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Delaine View Post
I was one of those others depended on, not the reverse. I'm a much better giver. I will check into those things you mentioned. God bless.
One of the things I find to be of most value in these forums is how we learn and grow from our collective experience.

When I was early in recovery I had to learn how to rely on others more. I was always the one to do the driving, manage the finances, etc. When I was unable to do these things my wife took over more and more of the day to day "stuff" we all manage and deal with. It was valuable to her to learn the financial managment stuff, and it was valuable to me to learn that I wasn't the only one that was able to do that "stuff"... it taught me it is OK to be more dependant on others. Our relationship has grown stronger through that experience. I'm glad you have family support. It may be worthwhile for them also to attend a TBI suport group if there is one in your area.

Wishing you continued progress in your recovery journey.
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What Happened: On November 29, 2010, I was walking across the street and was hit by a light rail commuter train. Result was a severe traumatic brain injury and multiple fractures (skull, pelvis, ribs). Total hospital stay was two months, one in ICU followed by an additional month in neuro-rehab. Upon hospital discharge, neurological testing revealed deficits in short term memory, executive functioning, and spatial recognition.

Today: Neuropsychological examination five months post-accident indicated a return to normal cognitive functioning, and I returned to work approximately 6 months after the accident. I am grateful to be alive and am looking forward to enjoying the rest of my life.
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