I agree with NerPain4... "Above all, be Polite, thankful and gracious!" We needed tests run, and a larger refill on meds when my daughter went to college. (Yes, its extremely hard, but God demonstrates His care for her everyday. Its been 13 years). We brought homemade cinnamon rolls to the office staff as a thank you for caring for her. THEN the doc got more compassionate, more focused on what she actually needed! The 'catch more flies with honey' theory in action!