The local SSA field agents who collect the info on ssdi GENERAL eligibility are not the same people who make the decisions on MEDICAL determination of disability.

Knowing that, any ethical lawyer would have told you to promptly report any possible wrongdoing of SSA staff and not to wait to see if your case was helped by an innappropraite personal relationship.

You will hear from the SSA after someone else, not the guy you have been talking/texting with, makes a decision regarding if they find you to be totally disabled based on the records that you provided.

In the mean time, you might want to discuss your fears and concerns with your mental health provider.

Best wishes on decreasing your stressors during this inherently stressful time !