So sorry to hear of the trauma you have had to go through. The first thing I look for in any doctor or therapist, is one who listens. If they listen and respond, you have a winner. I once asked a doc. "why" a certain test, instead of answering me, he said I had to do the test. Well that was the last I saw of him! I wish you all the best, and I hope you feel better soon. ginnie