Hi MsRrio
I read your post and thought..wow... we have a lot in common! I'm also 39 and work at a casino (off right now though) and I have a family too. My son is almost 18 though so I am very lucky that he is such a huge help. I couldn't imagine trying to recover from this with young kids.
I'm almost 6 months since my accident though. I don't have any magic answers, I just wanted to let you know it does get better. If I look back to where I was at 2 months there's been noticeable improvement. I still have a long way to go though.
The best advice has already been given, rest, cognitive and physical. No noise or stimulation. No tv, reading, phone conversations, going out, etc. I think the better you are at this the quicker you will see some improvement.
I'm too new to be giving advise though...just wanted to say good luck and it does get better! I'm going to check out those hormome links for us older ladies
CC