Thank you BF for knowing us so well...I go to bed with the chickens and am up before dawn.

Butterfly your dear friends husband needs someone to Listen to him...he needs much more than her closet cleaned and you need to talk. I recently had a dear woman in my living room, who alternated between screaming, sobbing and sharing her agony. Her youngest son (age 21) killed himself upstairs in their home on Nov 15th...she is still in shock.

Your friends child would love to have a hug from someone else who loved her mom. Could you possibly just show up today...not to clean out the closet yet but to show your love and support. I think it would mean the world to all of you who are missing her.