You certainly won't go wrong by doing this with your family! Sometimes the hard part is getting them all to go
At least this shows that you want to stick together as a family....very admirable. Especially the chronic pain issue - I think that is a VERY good suggestion. Despite the fact that our families do indeed love us, more times than not they don't really understand what it's like to be the one in the constant pain.
I hope you find the right therapist for you and your family, or a support group as Melody mentions.

Rae