Welcome, spaz. With everything you've got going on, I hope you'll be able to squeeze out the time to be with us here!
One of my grandboys is ADHD. He was on medication for several years, and stayed super thin. Then his Mom stopped it during one summer break, and found he was able to cope without it. Boy, has he packed on the weight since she stopped the meds. Of course, he still has learning disabilities, but he is coping with that too.
Hugs,