You get my hug of empathy. I just told my husband this morning that I wouldn't trade the pain for increased disability, but it sure does get old. Thank God it's not every day, but many/most days I sit until it hurts too much, then get up and move around until THAT hurts too much, repeat. One morning I woke up and...NOTHING HURT! I was actually in a comfortable position! I didn't want to move, but I had to pee. I burst into tears. My poor husband.