After taking care of EVERYONE else for the past 30 years and putting their needs first, I have made a change. Thank goodness for New Years resolutions ( for once). This coming monday I am headed for the west coast, to have "ME" time. I told my husband I have supported you for the past 20 years and have lived amongst ur family, never getting to see mine. SOOOO... This coming Monday I am headed west and plan to stay til the end of march. Hopefully during this time away we can come to a decision.... Stay married or start over. My employer graciously gave me 12 weeks to decide what I want to do. I am a good nurse and they did not want me to resign so they made it a personal leave. I am so excited to spend time with me!!! Does anyone know the best route from Ohio to California?? I would like to take the lower states... Want to avoid as much snow and ice as possible Hope everyone had a pain free holiday and prayers for a better 2013.