The saying, you find out who your friends are, is very true when comes to rsd. Have had it several years n am 30 now. I lost alot of great friends i thought would always have my back........but i have also gained some amazing friends who are literally here for me even on my worst days. Will just come lay in bed if thats all i can do. Know it is extremelyyyyy hurtful, but hang in there!!!!! Theres good people out there......ones that will not treat you differently bc u have rsd. Of course, all of us here have your back as well!!!!! Hope things get better!!!!