I'm new,had RSD/CRPS going into my 10th.I dealt with family member's that felt I should "pull myself up by the bootstraps & get on with life!"I'm fortunate to have a husband that went on the long journey for my diagnosis & watched helplessly while I was in severe pain.CRPS pain is considered higher/worse than the most severe burns on pain scales!I'm pleading with you to take it easy cleaning,even at a slow rate if it reduced you to tears.I insisted I was going to keep up the house as usual and ended up making my situation so much worse!If I just had somebody to tell me my determination was going to lea to deterioration,believe I would of learned to live with an unperfect home.There are sites for partners of person's in pain,perhaps he could just look some of those post over. Take Care!