Sandwalker,

The positive influences on your life of a child will far outweigh any negative. It may even be a stabilizing effect as it causes you to be more focused at home.

I have lived through PCS while raising three kids from birth. Please don't put it off due to your PCS.

btw, There is scientific evidence that having and raising a new born causes positive changes in how the brain functions.

And, little ones are so tolerant as long as you give them your time. You don't need to be a rocket scientist to be a good dad. In fact, the opposite is more the rule. Don't try to over-think it.

My best to you.