Mark,
I understand your sadness dealing with the loss of the person you once knew, as well as the dad who once knew you as well.

As you know, I was operated for rectal cancer (a 2inch tumor at the top of rectum) Kemo and Radiation was suggested by the surgeon. Because he at least wanted me to make an informed decision, I did see the two doctors. I have declined to have additional treatment. I have not been told I am terminal; but as the surgeon has said; some of cancerous cells which cannot be seen at this time may be there.

It's hard to explain; but with the terrible pain of the nerve damage, spine fusion, PN, the news I had cancer was almost a relief. I never shed a tear. My children said they understood my decision to decline treatment. My son said he felt he may be a bit selfish; but wished I would reconsider. My son also mentioned shortly after I came home from the hospital how much I had changed and seemed actually calmer and if possible, happier.

The end phase of the Alzeheimers possibly would be much worse than his passing sooner because of terminal cancer.

Special intentions in prayer are offered, during this difficult time, for you and your family.


Gerry