Hi, MiaVita2012,
You are a great mother and your daughter can get better with the right professional care and attention. Tonight was probably a tough night for both of you but trust me when I tell you that things will get better.
Keep your appointments for yourself. Your daughter needs you to be well more than anything now.
Let the social workers and the school figure out how the scheduleing is going to work. At school, ask lots of questions about what the school is going to do for your daughter. Also, ask about how soon they can do it.
(Your daughter probably qualifies for a teacher to come to the house once a week. That is different from homeschooling. Homeschooling is when you the parent are the teacher.)
Mari