JessieSue,

I know it must be so embarrassing for you and it really wouldn't help with ones self estemme (I can't seem to spell ). But, you don't have any control.....I know that doesn't really help how it makes you feel.

Have you been checked recently for a UTI or talked to your doctor about meds to help control it?

Your boyfriend sounds like a wonderful and understanding person.

Hang in there