I prefer to get it out in the open right away because there is no sense wasting time with someone who can't or won't be able to deal with the WHOLE you, including PCS. (They will see it sooner or later.)

Some people can handle it; some can't. The guy I was in a 6 year relationship with couldn't so I got out. I went out with one guy and he didn't like that sometimes I couldn't just go out - I needed quiet with no notice.

Then I was with a guy for 4 months and he was great about it. First date asked if there was anything he needed to know, if I had meds, who he should call or what he should do in certain circumstances. We decided to just be friends but he was and is great.

I have been with a guy now for 1 1/2 months. He wanted to know the same things. He understands.