Shelley, that was very well put We have been having the same discussion on another site I am on.

Hi Sunshyn! (are you the "brightness" from BT?)

I was just checking to see how things have been since you last posted. I hope maybe you and your partner were able to talk about things. Shelley's hit the nail on the head about how THEY must feel. He/she may be unsupportive only b/c maybe they do not understand and feel helpless. That is so very common.

I hope you will let us know how you are today!