I am still missing that grace thing. I thoroughly hate this PD, and I am more and more suspicious that the cure won't be here in my lifetime.

I mentioned in an earlier post under another topic that I did not like people offering unsolicited help. The reason is that while I am aware of what I cannot do easily, I don't need someone to remind me. "Do you want me to cut that for you?" stated as I dine with others in a restaurant, takes me out of my fantasy world where I think I am going unnoticed and whips me back into the real PD immersed world where I am not doing so great. To me that question means, "Everyone notices your awkward struggle and so I am asking to step in and give you my food-cutting expertise." There was once a book called, "I'm Okay;You're Okay". This offer comes from the book "I'm Okay; You're Not!"

I am not against asking for help. I am just against unsolicited offers. See how graceless I can be?

Thanks for the thread A.J.

Ann