He won't go to counseling with me at all. I already know that I have a choice to put up with him or kick him out. Right now I need him. In a couple years maybe not so much as my daughter will be older. The other day I yelled at him because I needed help cutting potatoes and he was playing some stupid video game. He didn't move at all. No response from yelling. I really don't know why he won't help me with dinner. He claims he can't cook, but I can give instructions and he still won't help. My daughter won't help much either, but at least I know she has a developmental disability. I'm pretty sure he does too, but won't admit it.

The money I will get soonish will be for me, he will get his own settlement. I'll put it in an acct with my name only. I will talk to my lawyer and make sure it's protected for me. He won't fight for it, he doesn't fight to be able to see his son right now, he's too lazy and disorganized to take care of himself at all.

I just keep thinking about all the automated things I need to get, can openers, tooth brushes, vacuums, etc. If I do kick him out, I'd be on my own, so either way I need to learn to do this crap by myself. He's proven that he can't support me when I need it.