It's SO good to be hearing from you!.......... but not because of this .
You've been to your appt by now, so maybe they have begun to lay out a plan of some sort for you.
So sorry to hear about your husband.....I'm cleaning out my files also. Half my life at my job and it has now desolved, mainly due to big corporate.
I hope an opportunity presents itself soon for him.

You both are in my prayers bigtime.....

Rae