I still would advise you to have that rep with your case. If your other one dumped you, get another. They don't get paid until you do. The system is all messed up Brain, and many people arn't getting the approval even if they need it desperately. I know a gal in the hospital with another stoke, because of being denied. This is happening all over the country. Even with new evidence, the process will go smoother if you have someone in your ball court.
I don't want you to get turned down again, I think your best shot is to get with a SS rep. to get you the rest of the way toward the Disability OK? I am just worried you will get turned down again. It took me three times, and too many years, and I had had 7 surgeries.
You are a good son to try not to involved your parents as they have troubles too. Just don't put yourself in a position where you are freaking over the money issues. That can be over whelming all by itself. You can always pay your folks back for their kindness Brain, pay them back when you checks start coming. They don't want you to suffer Brain. I think it is awsome at how much you want to spare them any more trouble. You need them though right now, to get through this process in one piece.
You bet we understand on NT. None of it is easy. We all need that support. I am in your corner too. Please re-consider getting that rep. I just don't trust the system without one.
Take care Brain, I will indeed keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Others pray for me too. ginnie