Yep, you have had more than a realistic share in your life of late!
I guess, you are doing the smartest thing in focusing on the good stuff and not letting so much of the bad eat at you....Somehow, all of us here, no matter what our situations seem to muddle by as best we can... Counting the blessings we HAVE often is far better the counting the problems for sure.
Hang in there and here's a

to help you along the way! - j