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Originally Posted by Toni-lynne
hi pain pals. Well today is day 4 with a pain level of 4-6 its been so good im afraid what tomorrow will bring. I just need a little advice my mother in law says to me gee I feel so bad for Brian (husband) now that he has retired and you are holding him back from golfing and what not. He is 57 and Im 54 I couldnt believe she said that like i can change it lol I have fibro, neuro pain, epilepsy and some other stuff it has made me leave work 6 yrs ago I wont ever be going back I am on disability they have been really good to me so far. How do you deal with a statement like this any advise please
Thanks Toni
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I understand what the other poster advised --but i do think a bit diffrently because like u stated they been good to you and obvious what your mother in law said really bothered you or you wouldnt post. I think sometimes not that it has to be a big ordeal but if he(husband) were to let her know the comment hurt your feelings --it was thought less . I think the problem is if nothing said you will always hold resentment about it which isnt healthy either but it can be said back tactfully to her. That's me-- I leaned long time ago to ignore rude comments and it got me nowhere fast --but hurt.