I'm sorry to hear your news. I have a mammogram on Friday and I worry every time. Like you, I am so deep in TOS world, I'm not sure I have enough space in my head to keep up with other important stuff.

My closest friend was going through breast cancer at the same time I had my rib resection eight years ago. She said she felt guilty because everyone knows what breast cancer is, no one questions if it's real, there are support groups, fundraisers, helpful neighbors organizing meals. For TOS, you're largely on your own. That may be true, but each health crisis has its own unique worries and challenges.

I wish you the best of luck. You are in my thoughts.